Did I kena the KC Trap?

[boomerangarang]

No need to feel guilty bro. You did the right thing. Chances are she has already move on to search for a new guy to be her carrot head.

Originally Posted by Riezboy

Bros,i already block her from my hp,line,wechat and deactivated facebook.Issit good enuff?Somehow i feel guilty.god dammit.

[gamersland]

my little way of preventing from falling into the KC trap.. if u know u are the type who fall into KC trap easily (because u are too emotionally oriented), you can try using my method below..

what is the main consequences of falling into KC trap? u lose money.. why does the ML/FL want to make u fall into the KC trap? they want money.. so it all boils down to 1 thing.. $$.. which means if u have no $$ = u are less likely to fall into KC trap (u want also cannot.. )

month end salary comes in.. so what i do is i'll set aside a sum of money (let's say X amount) for massage with or w/o happy ending for the entire month.. another sum i'll save in fixed deposit/investment savings.. (no point saving in POSB savings acct because the temptation of withdrawing out the money to spend on ML/FL during the later part of the month after X amount is used up is too high).. so what about the rest of the money?? i would say spend it on things u like.. hobbies/interests/etc. if no.. like what i did.. i will spend it all on branded goods, electronic gadgets (most guys like), jewellery or whatever stuff that you may like.. (and i mean physical things) The leftover will be for food and transport for work..

now u may ask.. isn't it also waste of money to spend on shopping? don't forget that the things you bought are all in your hands.. u can use it, for show off, pawn during financial crisis or even sell them next time for a small losses if u really don't like them. the money that you spend on ML/FL is the same as the cum that you released to them.. u can never put back into your bank (the big one and small one)...u only use the money (X amount) that u set aside for your ML/FL for the month.. after u finish using it, you won't have extra anymore to even be KC by them or trying to KC them.. in this way, the KC trap will not fall on you..

of course this method will not work on everyone.. no method of preventing KC trap is foolproof..

i have 1 example.. i had a ML in the past whom i was quite regular with and attracted to.. think i visited her 4-5 times within a period of less than 1 month.. needless to say, i exhausted my X amount.. she went back to her country for a short while and returning back dunno when lah.. anyway everytime during the session with her, i'll choose the most expensive extra and tip her on top of that.. we also chatted often on wechat.. did i fall into the KC trap? i think i did but not so deep.. but i used the method every month that i mentioned above.. so when she went back to her country, she contacted me asking me for a sum of money.. from that period onwards i knew she playing the KC game on me.. for someone who has fallen into the KC trap, he will give her the money.. but the criteria is he must have the money on hand.. luckily, i spend all my money on other things after forced savings so i have no extra to give her even if i want to.. thus i did not give her any money and fall further into the KC trap although i already realised it was a trap..

Above is just a small advice from someone who has seen my friends kenna KC traps (some marry them, some support them for years), someone who also falls into KC trap before (although not so deep until regret like shit).. of course there are some ML/FL who are really looking for love, someone to take care of them and care for them (not all of them enjoy working in this line, they need to survive also).. but majority are looking for money, someone to pamper them with vitamin M and splurge on them.. earn for a few years, bank account fat liao then just leave the country.. so for all cheongsters out there.. keep your eyes open, keep your mind clear, keep your small head in place (ok it can be all over the place during that 1-2 hours) and cheong with control..

happy cheonging 2017!!!

[Kugan168]

Originally Posted by gamersland

my little way of preventing from falling into the KC trap.. if u know u are the type who fall into KC trap easily (because u are too emotionally oriented), you can try using my method below..

what is the main consequences of falling into KC trap? u lose money.. why does the ML/FL want to make u fall into the KC trap? they want money.. so it all boils down to 1 thing.. $$.. which means if u have no $$ = u are less likely to fall into KC trap (u want also cannot.. )

month end salary comes in.. so what i do is i'll set aside a sum of money (let's say X amount) for massage with or w/o happy ending for the entire month.. another sum i'll save in fixed deposit/investment savings.. (no point saving in POSB savings acct because the temptation of withdrawing out the money to spend on ML/FL during the later part of the month after X amount is used up is too high).. so what about the rest of the money?? i would say spend it on things u like.. hobbies/interests/etc. if no.. like what i did.. i will spend it all on branded goods, electronic gadgets (most guys like), jewellery or whatever stuff that you may like.. (and i mean physical things) The leftover will be for food and transport for work..

now u may ask.. isn't it also waste of money to spend on shopping? don't forget that the things you bought are all in your hands.. u can use it, for show off, pawn during financial crisis or even sell them next time for a small losses if u really don't like them. the money that you spend on ML/FL is the same as the cum that you released to them.. u can never put back into your bank (the big one and small one)...u only use the money (X amount) that u set aside for your ML/FL for the month.. after u finish using it, you won't have extra anymore to even be KC by them or trying to KC them.. in this way, the KC trap will not fall on you..

of course this method will not work on everyone.. no method of preventing KC trap is foolproof..

i have 1 example.. i had a ML in the past whom i was quite regular with and attracted to.. think i visited her 4-5 times within a period of less than 1 month.. needless to say, i exhausted my X amount.. she went back to her country for a short while and returning back dunno when lah.. anyway everytime during the session with her, i'll choose the most expensive extra and tip her on top of that.. we also chatted often on wechat.. did i fall into the KC trap? i think i did but not so deep.. but i used the method every month that i mentioned above.. so when she went back to her country, she contacted me asking me for a sum of money.. from that period onwards i knew she playing the KC game on me.. for someone who has fallen into the KC trap, he will give her the money.. but the criteria is he must have the money on hand.. luckily, i spend all my money on other things after forced savings so i have no extra to give her even if i want to.. thus i did not give her any money and fall further into the KC trap although i already realised it was a trap..

Above is just a small advice from someone who has seen my friends kenna KC traps (some marry them, some support them for years), someone who also falls into KC trap before (although not so deep until regret like shit).. of course there are some ML/FL who are really looking for love, someone to take care of them and care for them (not all of them enjoy working in this line, they need to survive also).. but majority are looking for money, someone to pamper them with vitamin M and splurge on them.. earn for a few years, bank account fat liao then just leave the country.. so for all cheongsters out there.. keep your eyes open, keep your mind clear, keep your small head in place (ok it can be all over the place during that 1-2 hours) and cheong with control..

happy cheonging 2017!!!

What a good method to use and I agree with you, always set aside a sum of money for the entire month and only can use the sum of money. Up you for a good comment.

[alkz]

Fuck and be done with it. If the sex is good then Fuck harder and be done with it. If the sex is fantastic then Fuck Hardest and be done with it.

if u want to play the kc game then you must be smart enuff to end the KC game as well.

There is no need to get so emotionally involve with ML/FL......

[muthu_curry]

aikz, u badly burnt by kc game before is it.
Why so 激动？

[elforno]

Originally Posted by alkz

So u end up happily married with her?

Nope marriage is a cemetery for happiness
I just give her happiness instead of money

[too_hot]

Lets be honest here. In many of the "real world" adult relationships that we have, the money-for-sex or sex-for-money exchange happens as well, just less upfront. Why all those gals want to make themselves look chio? Make up, double eye lid operation, push up bra, sexy clothes, whatever? Basically to attract the men (of course maybe got other stuff like feeling good about themselves, etc). And of course it works - aren't most men attracted to chio bu? Of course if it happens they are bitches then in the end if the guy smart will leave the bitch also. But looks at least opens the door for her. And what about guys? Aren't gals attracted to rich successful guys? Even not so handsome and no six pack also nevermind. Got bungalow or even just a nice condo and a conti car is good enough. And what happens when we date? The guys pays for most if not everything right? For what? Well for the chance to get into her pants, no? This is the natural order of things. Even one of my platonic gf who is earning 5 figure - when she go on dates, she still expects the guy to pay.

The reality is this kind of exchange is the norm. In some cases, it's even worse, guys come out with all the money and effort and STILL gets nothing (or not much) in return. Whereas in ML/FL that you are "KC" in, you DEFINITELY at least get something back - even if it is "fake". At that moment, the kind of sweetness and happiness feels very REAL.

Some time back i had a very good regular ML too. I was only patronising her exclusively and all our sessions lasted the full hour with tender love making and then we cuddle and chit chat after it's done until time's up (sometimes even more). But we NEVER went out for dates (to me that crossed the line). It was always strictly at the shop only. And yes i bought her flowers on valentines day and also present on christmas day. Each visit was about $200 and twice a week so that was about $800 per month. But after the session my time is my own - so a lot of freedom while my sexual n emotional needs were satisfied. It ended after her shop was raided (those curious which shop, it was Xiang Li at Bugis - only old birds will know this place).

Now when i got gf i also spend almost around that amount per month and on top of that i need to do a lot of things for her which means a lot less freedom for me. And the service of the ML was MUCH better - not to mention more chio and much hotter body too. The "real" gf is normal sg gal, quite thin, petite, A cup. In bed mostly just lie there on the bed and maybe kiss me a bit here and there. No bbbj, no cat bath, nothing much. I will be honest to say that sometimes i wonder if it's worth it. And if tomorrow suddenly everything goes wrong and i lose everything how? I am not absolutely sure she will remain the same with me cos i think my ability to provide for her is a big factor for her.

By no means am i encouraging being KC'ed but i am just saying that the real thing isn't necessarily that great either! We shouldn't be so hard on those that got KC'ed. If it makes them happy then hey, that's all that matters. Just like I also don't understand those that get "KC'ed" by casino and keep on going there and lose so much money until financially ruined. Everyone has their weakness, their desires, etc. I can only say, know your limits.

At the end of the day ALL of us operate on feelings. When we talk about sense of achievement - it's a feeling. When we go holidays to have fun - thats a feeling too. When we make a good presentation to our boss we want it to look good to make our boss happy - that's a feeling (even if the presentation got many factual errors which he can't tell cos he is not on the ground). At the end of the day that's what we all want - to be happy. And how we achieve that feeling, its everyone's own prerogative.

[FUNNYANDHORNY]

TS.
straight forward....



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[gamersland]

Originally Posted by too_hot

Lets be honest here. In many of the "real world" adult relationships that we have, the money-for-sex or sex-for-money exchange happens as well, just less upfront. Why all those gals want to make themselves look chio? Make up, double eye lid operation, push up bra, sexy clothes, whatever? Basically to attract the men (of course maybe got other stuff like feeling good about themselves, etc). And of course it works - aren't most men attracted to chio bu? Of course if it happens they are bitches then in the end if the guy smart will leave the bitch also. But looks at least opens the door for her. And what about guys? Aren't gals attracted to rich successful guys? Even not so handsome and no six pack also nevermind. Got bungalow or even just a nice condo and a conti car is good enough. And what happens when we date? The guys pays for most if not everything right? For what? Well for the chance to get into her pants, no? This is the natural order of things. Even one of my platonic gf who is earning 5 figure - when she go on dates, she still expects the guy to pay.

The reality is this kind of exchange is the norm. In some cases, it's even worse, guys come out with all the money and effort and STILL gets nothing (or not much) in return. Whereas in ML/FL that you are "KC" in, you DEFINITELY at least get something back - even if it is "fake". At that moment, the kind of sweetness and happiness feels very REAL.

Some time back i had a very good regular ML too. I was only patronising her exclusively and all our sessions lasted the full hour with tender love making and then we cuddle and chit chat after it's done until time's up (sometimes even more). But we NEVER went out for dates (to me that crossed the line). It was always strictly at the shop only. And yes i bought her flowers on valentines day and also present on christmas day. Each visit was about $200 and twice a week so that was about $800 per month. But after the session my time is my own - so a lot of freedom while my sexual n emotional needs were satisfied. It ended after her shop was raided (those curious which shop, it was Xiang Li at Bugis - only old birds will know this place).

Now when i got gf i also spend almost around that amount per month and on top of that i need to do a lot of things for her which means a lot less freedom for me. And the service of the ML was MUCH better - not to mention more chio and much hotter body too. The "real" gf is normal sg gal, quite thin, petite, A cup. In bed mostly just lie there on the bed and maybe kiss me a bit here and there. No bbbj, no cat bath, nothing much. I will be honest to say that sometimes i wonder if it's worth it. And if tomorrow suddenly everything goes wrong and i lose everything how? I am not absolutely sure she will remain the same with me cos i think my ability to provide for her is a big factor for her.

By no means am i encouraging being KC'ed but i am just saying that the real thing isn't necessarily that great either! We shouldn't be so hard on those that got KC'ed. If it makes them happy then hey, that's all that matters. Just like I also don't understand those that get "KC'ed" by casino and keep on going there and lose so much money until financially ruined. Everyone has their weakness, their desires, etc. I can only say, know your limits.

At the end of the day ALL of us operate on feelings. When we talk about sense of achievement - it's a feeling. When we go holidays to have fun - thats a feeling too. When we make a good presentation to our boss we want it to look good to make our boss happy - that's a feeling (even if the presentation got many factual errors which he can't tell cos he is not on the ground). At the end of the day that's what we all want - to be happy. And how we achieve that feeling, its everyone's own prerogative.

Nice comments and well written bro. U deserve my humble points. I agree with you that some guys who fall into the Kc trap can still go ahead to stay in the trap as long as it is within their financial means. They can just follow their feelings and whatever sense of achievement they may get in the end. In fact I also bought gifts for my previous regular ML such as watches and phones but I make sure it is within my financial means. 1 pt I noted u mentioned is that the ML give good sex as compared to own gf. Frankly speaking, I prefer sex with my own gf who is Super inexperienced as compared to the ML. MLs are usually good in the bed because they might have been well trained after numerous bonking sessions with other customers. Sometimes I would rather the ML just be less proactive as it tends to feel kinda commercialised. As for the gf who only look st money and expect guys to pay for everything... well... not all of them are like that. Some don't mind going on Dutch and wouldn't mind if u are staying in HDB flats and squeezing in mrt every morning to work. Before I had a car, I also take the train with my ex to work every morning and the feeling was actually great. Maybe u have not met the right gal yet.

Anyway all in all a good write up. Would be great to exchange ideas with u over this thread again. Cheers.

[tofuman1977]

Great experiences and thoughts from bros here.

I have not seen a recent thread with real advice and non-squabbling..

keep it up guys!

I have kena kc-ed a couple of times as well. I see many relevant advice from many bros here.

The key is for me as well, whether you are married or not.

If you are single, there is a chance that you might really find someone you like.

If you are married, it is almost a certainty that you will get HURT!

So if wana play, can but don't turn it into a marriage nightmare and end up being away from your family and children.

It is not worth it bros.

[alkz]

Originally Posted by muthu_curry

aikz, u badly burnt by kc game before is it.
Why so 激动？

haha i 激动 meh? maybe becoz i recalled all the great sex i had makes me emotional.....

im not being boastful or what. Nobody can hurt me unless i allow myself to be hurt......is just simple as that

[damong777]

Simple advice will be play within ur means especially with economy not that good for next few years.

Why worry about no gals when u r able to spend? Always bear in mind ur objective. If is to fnf then fnf.

If new to such experience, 100% will kena once kc. Just learn from it and move on. Easily said hard to do unless u r really detached from feelings. There is no such things as right or wrong.

[Gold69luck]

I always visited this ml that I'm attracted to at Jurong west, I went to her about twice a week spending about $100 each time. I think I like her, did I get KCed by her?

[Thelostone188]

Originally Posted by tofuman1977

Great experiences and thoughts from bros here.

I have not seen a recent thread with real advice and non-squabbling..

keep it up guys!

I have kena kc-ed a couple of times as well. I see many relevant advice from many bros here.

The key is for me as well, whether you are married or not.

If you are single, there is a chance that you might really find someone you like.

If you are married, it is almost a certainty that you will get HURT!

So if wana play, can but don't turn it into a marriage nightmare and end up being away from your family and children.

It is not worth it bros.

This is a very good advice.

Iwas thinking maybe can be friends with these MLs but each time after a session, end up disappointed cos they only want $$, which is why they are here for anyway.

During session, try to treat them like own gfs, want mutual satisfaction but also disappointed. They just want to get it over and done with.

Now, just go in and enjoy and come out. Never give a damn to what they say.
Maybe one day I will get lucky, but tougher than striking toto! 😬

[assrimmer]

There are many fish in the ocean. Don't stick to just one or else you will feel very panick without her.

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