Advises for a single lady with extremely high libido

[Sugarcreamtoast]

Hi everyone,

Before i confess, would appreciate if you guys can be serious and be of help instead of posting irrelevant and negative remarks k? Also dont ask for picture lol 😂

Im a local girl in my mid 20s and am single for months already.
The reason im here because i personally feel that i have no one to turn to in regards of this personal matter

I havent engage in anything sexual ever since my rs and my already very high sex drive is driving me nuts. I feel so horny, so filled with dark desire, constantly wet, always finding myself fantasying about sex day in day out unknowingly.
All i can think of is nothing but sex. I love sex a lot and am feeling helplessly lost without solution on this. Without help to satisfy my needs.
I can make love everyday even several times day and i seldom get sick with it.

Sometimes i even have thoughts of experiencing sexual acts with diff partners, cuckold, exhibiting in public, seduce guys, engage in dirty talks, genital massage, tease and make the guy to beg me for penetration, watch me playing with myself, third party watching me and partner having intercourse, touch fondle and please me, and also performing a long loving oral on the type of tools that looks appealing to me.

But here come the main major issue!!! I CANT!!!!!!
I totally understand that i am young, single and have the luxury to do so but i simply do not wanna sleep around and get intimate easily with just anyone. I do not wanna fuck around i dont like guys to take me lightly, i dont wanna live in regrets, feel dirty, be cheap, get diseases and most importantly make it a deadly habit by getting hook to it amd label myself as a sex addict.
I can only think. Been thinking about it for the longest time yet there is nothing i can do with it, vbeen trying to endure

Oh yes i can most definitely help myself but its not enough.

Guys is this normal? What should i do?
I so miss it help

[mutenka]

your libido will slowly decline towards your 30s

[love86]

maybe you can use sex toy to help you on this issue

[squiggle]

Sis, this is the best place to look for fb and open minded friends. Just be selective will do but at the end of the day you sure will be satisfy. Good luck

[WinampForever]

I am also the same, high sex drive, lol

[nuclearkid]

Perhaps you have too much energy to expend and/or are suffering from the momentum of a previous relationship where sex was constantly on the cards. You'll have to hang in there and allow time to fade off your libido gradually, even the force of habit will ebb away.

And you also have the option of hooking up with someone solely for this purpose if you so desire. You have your hang up about such arrangements but with the right person, it's possible that the experience will exceed your expectations.

Bonne chance.

[hornysquirt]

contact me,i have high sex drive too

[Serenade]

1. Get yourself an active hobby like badminton, MMA, running or trekking. Besides working off excess energy, getting fitter, chances are you will find a decent guy to enter a relationship with. Sharing a hobby allows you to get a know a guy better when his guard is down, without sex getting in the way.

2. In the meantime, DIY or use toys while fantasize making love with your heart throb to get physical relief.

3. Join an online dating site. State what you are looking for clearly i.e serious relationship and not fling so as not to get off on the wrong foot.

Hope you find a good guy who treasures and pleasures you soon. I am sure he will be pleasantly surprised with what is waiting for him under your skirt.

[Sen5eS]

Originally Posted by Serenade

1. Get yourself an active hobby like badminton, MMA, running or trekking. Besides working off excess energy, getting fitter, chances are you will find a decent guy to enter a relationship with. Sharing a hobby allows you to get a know a guy better when his guard is down, without sex getting in the way.

2. In the meantime, DIY or use toys while fantasize making love with your heart throb to get physical relief.

3. Join an online dating site. State what you are looking for clearly i.e serious relationship and not fling so as not to get off on the wrong foot.

Hope you find a good guy who treasures and pleasures you soon. I am sure he will be pleasantly surprised with what is waiting for him under your skirt.

hahaha lovely advice that makes a lot of sense

Hopefully the activities mentioned can help u channel the urges into a more positive output ... else plenty of options here

[tire]

ts go live in nunnery.

[Fat Fatt]

This is the perfect place for us to meet.
I am a mature guy with strong libido too and will be keen to meet up and assess if we can help each other.
PM me

[MoeLanYong]

Originally Posted by Serenade

1. Get yourself an active hobby like badminton, MMA, running or trekking. Besides working off excess energy, getting fitter, chances are you will find a decent guy to enter a relationship with. Sharing a hobby allows you to get a know a guy better when his guard is down, without sex getting in the way.

2. In the meantime, DIY or use toys while fantasize making love with your heart throb to get physical relief.

3. Join an online dating site. State what you are looking for clearly i.e serious relationship and not fling so as not to get off on the wrong foot.

Hope you find a good guy who treasures and pleasures you soon. I am sure he will be pleasantly surprised with what is waiting for him under your skirt.

Good advice. You should heed the above.

I once had a fwb. Extremely high libido. At one stage she was doing 4 guys in a week. When it came to me, she wanted sex at least 3 times a day, everyday. She was already married. Doing her hubby 4-5 times a week was definitely not enough. She was an athlete which explains her stamina.

She does the craziest things. Taking calls from her hubby when I was inside her and prolonging the conversation. Getting totally naked in an open office with colleagues typing away unwittingly. Having sex naked in broad day light in a prominent open space of a park. Wear 10 inch tall A line flare skirts to office without undies....so that it is more convenient for us etc. Naturally, I could not keep up. She was frustrated. We parted and next thing I know she was sleeping with another manager. She is a looker with a great body and an intelligent U grad so getting guys was easy. The occurrence of her type is rare. Maybe 1 in 50. You are blessed (or cursed) like her.

You can choose to be like her. Let it all out. Deal with guilt, rumours and the consequences. Or you can choose what Serenade recommended. Keep yourself occupied 24/7. Find hobbies. Actively pursue searching and landing a long term partner. Remember to get one who can accommodate your sex drive less you end up cheating. Many here boast of their sexual prowess. They have not done 3-4 times a day, everyday for 6 months, and yet tio complain.

[FattycatDolly]

Originally Posted by mutenka

your libido will slowly decline towards your 30s

Could be 40s

[Crustello]

Originally Posted by tire

ts go live in nunnery.

Same thoughts here.

[highlysex]

how about going to consult a doctor?