Sex Life after Marriage

[duothrust]

Originally Posted by Fade

Hubby and I got married after I found out that i was preggy. Since then, we have never make love before.

Throughout my pregnancy, I always urged my hubby to make love but he turned me down many times and told me that we will do it again after I gave birth as he is afraid that he might hurt the baby.

My hubby has been very responsible and caring. He showers his love to me and i know there is no third party involved as he "report" to me all the time.

I have pulled out some notable points u mentioned as above.

Firstly, your husband might still be bitter about the fact that he has to marry u due to the unplanned pregnancy.

Secondly, he has gotten used to life without sex during your pregnancy when he didn't wish to hurt the baby.

Thirdly, if u mention that he still loves u, then it kinda contradict my first point and yet gives u some chance to work on this issue more easily.

BUT.... from a man's point of view, i believe that most women might have gained weight or have some breakouts on face which still are evident after giving birth, which might makes u less attractive than before when u mentioned that hubby and u tend to makeout alot.

Hence, i suggest that you take up a slimming / facial package within your means. After all, even if your husband still don't wish to have sex with you after that, you can still boost up your self-confidence, which is important when we go out to work (esp in a role which requires facing clients).

Good luck!

[jarth17]

i'm facing too on my wife. We use to ml twice a week, after giving birth, we slow down. Now, i need to ask permission before touching her. Or else she will give a black face or giving excuses tired lah not feeling well.

I can feel what you are facing now. Those honeymoon period are gone. Have to endure now for the children to grow up.

[AngelEye]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

Grrrrrrrrrrr........watch it gal u threading on very thin ice...grrrrrrr.....

OOps..!! but it's true ma.. u dress up like mario brothers character n jump jump around ur wife.. see if she will be interested to play u..

[AngelEye]

Originally Posted by Oralcraz

I'm sorry to hear that bro monster Frankie is beaten by a Pretty Small Penis.

geee u say like that later he rear end u.. (i dare not think what would be the outcome lor.)

[dec_gal]

Originally Posted by Highjoys

Well, agreed. Anyway divorce is very common nowadays, so is adultery. Really you cannot take it too hard but u must clarify your doubts. We all got a long way to go so dun be crumbled by one setback in life if there is any. Meanwhile try to find out why and save the situation first.

sigh... he actually bring her back home.. I caught him red-handed
so u think as a wife... how to save ....? anyway is past... and the case had finalised...

dun really understand y a guy can jus hurt his loved one so deep...

[Oralcraz]

Originally Posted by AngelEye

geee u say like that later he rear end u.. (i dare not think what would be the outcome lor.)

Bro Frankie is very open minded one. Won't anyhow rear end people one. Anyway, my rear end put on offer also nobody want.....cos got piles before. I remember during my army days, I ask my buddy to apply cream on my piles as it's very painful. He sees it and ran away. No apetite for a few days. So no worries.

[Oralcraz]

Originally Posted by dec_gal

sigh... he actually bring her back home.. I caught him red-handed
so u think as a wife... how to save ....? anyway is past... and the case had finalised...

dun really understand y a guy can jus hurt his loved one so deep...

Sorry to hear that. Bringing home is totally unacceptable. I can imagine at that moment, yr anger, yr hurt, yr emotion. U must be hysterical. Anyway, am sure u are emotionally strong. Jia yu...Jia yu...Jia yu...

[t123]

I think Sis try to think if you might be a bit sensitive, times like now, for a guy maybe the crunch is getting into him. Probably, he might be extremely stressed up. Its not easy to face the brunt of the situation now. Maybe he is also try his best by watching porn but there is no one best solution for all problems. I hope you continue breast feeding as it is for the health of your baby. I think you might wanna see a shrink to ease your emotional burden. If you trust him not having flings outside, then you should rest your mind assure to seek help for yourself first. Whatever it comes along, your new born child needs you more. At least he did touched you, my friend saw her hubby humped the bolster than to touch her till she started affairs with her ex colleague. All of us goes through stages of life differently, maybe show him more care and concern emotionally, sometimes its just like some mandarin songs, being a man not easy especially for times like now. Take heart, keep positive and be assure that you are still the one he wants.

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by Oralcraz

I'm sorry to hear that bro monster Frankie is beaten by a Pretty Small Penis.

oooooh that one really hitting below the belt.....

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by AngelEye

OOps..!! but it's true ma.. u dress up like mario brothers character n jump jump around ur wife.. see if she will be interested to play u..

if i dress up like a mario bro would you be interested to play with me...

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by AngelEye

geee u say like that later he rear end u.. (i dare not think what would be the outcome lor.)

hmmmm u seems to know my specialty...u stalking me ah?

[AngelEye]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

if i dress up like a mario bro would you be interested to play with me...

i prefer spiderman. hehe..

[AngelEye]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

hmmmm u seems to know my specialty...u stalking me ah?

no need to stalk u, you tell the whole world that u are a rear person.

[hotsoup16]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

Damn we should exchange partners, cos my oc also bring PSP to bed and play until she fall asleep...always leaving me high and dry...i think she gets her orgasm playing from the game then making love with me...

Damn monster Frankie gets beaten to it by a PSP...

haha.no wonder u're constantly on the lookout (outside for extra hole)

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by AngelEye

i prefer spiderman. hehe..

well i got something that spits out like a spider web....