Looking for SBs or such

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by terminator33

SB found!

Thread is officially close for sb searching. However I am into making friends for drinks or whatsoever.

Congratz bro!

Still wanna free bumps your thread? lol have fun!

[Ladyrain]

Closed liao la. Lol.
Drinks tonight anyone? Very late hor. Pm or email me.

[Sen5eS]

Originally Posted by Ladyrain

Closed liao la. Lol.
Drinks tonight anyone? Very late hor. Pm or email me.

You mean drink till very late or start drinking late ?

[terminator33]

Originally Posted by justl00king

Congratz bro!

Still wanna free bumps your thread? lol have fun!

why not? ....

[Ladyrain]

Originally Posted by Sen5eS

You mean drink till very late or start drinking late ?

Eh. You very funny hor. Pm me or email me la.
Dont discuss in ts thread la.
Cancelled. Not feeling well.

[terminator33]

This will be my 7th SBs over the last 8 years and the only one I got from SBF. Someone asked about the source of finding SB.

1. FL - they are a good source as they are used to the sexual portion. The only problem is that, don't choose those FLs that are seasoned. Some of them are troublesome as they may resort to FL while being your SB. If you must find through FL, find the fresh FL - if you can "block" them in the 1st two weeks at work. RTF them till they trust you and think going with you exclusively is better than serving many. I had one very good one from a Fresh FL.

2. Dating site. I got two SBs there. Not bad as you can date first and check out first before committing.

3. On others recommendation. Make friends with other potential SD and share information. I got one SB - I got her number and try my luck.. Take lots of patience and sincerity. A couple of weeks of texting on/off before meeting for meals. After a couple of meals then ...

4. Another source is 'unknown'. My last SB (Oct 2013 to Jun 2014). She hunted me instead of the other way round.

5. Clubbing. You can try. I havet flings/ONS there but not SB.

6. Make as many friends as possible. You never know what they may bring you.

7. Lastly, try not to find SB who is attached. It can cause you lots of pain. I had one who is still entangling with her ex. Her pain becomes my pain. Not worth it.

How to handle your SB:

1) Treat them with respect. They are human as well. Respect their right to privacy. Don't share their photos with others unless she is agreeable.

2) Set ground rules right in the beginning about do's and don'ts. Set expectations about dates.

3) Don't interfere with their private lives. Give them space to meet others as long as she don't fuck around. Anyway, you won't be able to tell. However, one tell-tale sign is when she starts to cancel/postpone your appointment.

4) Agree on payment terms. Never advance monthly payment unless the relationship is stablize - at least 6-8 weeks. 1st two months - payment on progressive basis. My formula: 30%, 30%, 30% & 10% at weekly interval. From third month you can adjust accordingly. And don't owe them money. It is downright a disgrace for a SD to owe SB her allowances.

5) They may ask for loan at some point in time. I can't tell you whether to loan or not. It is your judgement call. if you don't want to loan - then tell her upfront. And if you loan, try not to use the loan to offset the payment - it can partially offset payment but you must give her something (money) when she is meeting you.. Loan is actually a very difficult situation to handle. I have been burnt but on other occasion, the loan may help and SB can be very appreciative. It depends on the SB. If you want to loan, only when you are together for at least a couple of months.

6) Shopping. Tell her your expectation. You have to tell her your limit. Never give her a sup card unless you lose your mind. I will give more shopping allowances when travelling.

Treat her nice but be firm on the ground rules. They can bring you lots of fun. But don't get too emotionally involved, else you will be strung along like an idiot. If you are getting too emotionally involved, I would suggest to break off. I did it to one of the SB. Similarly if she is emotionally in love with you - break-off as well - unless you want to make her your GF.

Remember, she is an SB - probably for a finite period of time. While together be happy. When time is up, move on and still can be friends.

[tin77]

Thumbs up for this piece of advise.

[postmortem]

Originally Posted by terminator33

This will be my 7th SBs over the last 8 years and the only one I got from SBF. Someone asked about the source of finding SB.

Very good writeup! Definitely a worthwhile read for all sugardaddies.

You've had years of experience. Hope you enjoy your latest SB!

[Ladyrain]

Wow. Very clear set of rules. Maybe sugar babes need to have their set of rules when "dating" one??

[Sen5eS]

Originally Posted by Ladyrain

Wow. Very clear set of rules. Maybe sugar babes need to have their set of rules when "dating" one??

hahaha

Anyway ... informative + Tried & Tested set of T/C from TS ... think the most important is don't lose your head & heart ... then there's only 1 rule left ... Whatever you say Baby. The End.

[nachos84]

Originally Posted by terminator33

This will be my 7th SBs over the last 8 years and the only one I got from SBF. Someone asked about the source of finding SB.

1. FL - they are a good source as they are used to the sexual portion. The only problem is that, don't choose those FLs that are seasoned. Some of them are troublesome as they may resort to FL while being your SB. If you must find through FL, find the fresh FL - if you can "block" them in the 1st two weeks at work. RTF them till they trust you and think going with you exclusively is better than serving many. I had one very good one from a Fresh FL.

2. Dating site. I got two SBs there. Not bad as you can date first and check out first before committing.

3. On others recommendation. Make friends with other potential SD and share information. I got one SB - I got her number and try my luck.. Take lots of patience and sincerity. A couple of weeks of texting on/off before meeting for meals. After a couple of meals then ...

4. Another source is 'unknown'. My last SB (Oct 2013 to Jun 2014). She hunted me instead of the other way round.

5. Clubbing. You can try. I havet flings/ONS there but not SB.

6. Make as many friends as possible. You never know what they may bring you.

7. Lastly, try not to find SB who is attached. It can cause you lots of pain. I had one who is still entangling with her ex. Her pain becomes my pain. Not worth it.

How to handle your SB:

1) Treat them with respect. They are human as well. Respect their right to privacy. Don't share their photos with others unless she is agreeable.

2) Set ground rules right in the beginning about do's and don'ts. Set expectations about dates.

3) Don't interfere with their private lives. Give them space to meet others as long as she don't fuck around. Anyway, you won't be able to tell. However, one tell-tale sign is when she starts to cancel/postpone your appointment.

4) Agree on payment terms. Never advance monthly payment unless the relationship is stablize - at least 6-8 weeks. 1st two months - payment on progressive basis. My formula: 30%, 30%, 30% & 10% at weekly interval. From third month you can adjust accordingly. And don't owe them money. It is downright a disgrace for a SD to owe SB her allowances.

5) They may ask for loan at some point in time. I can't tell you whether to loan or not. It is your judgement call. if you don't want to loan - then tell her upfront. And if you loan, try not to use the loan to offset the payment - it can partially offset payment but you must give her something (money) when she is meeting you.. Loan is actually a very difficult situation to handle. I have been burnt but on other occasion, the loan may help and SB can be very appreciative. It depends on the SB. If you want to loan, only when you are together for at least a couple of months.

6) Shopping. Tell her your expectation. You have to tell her your limit. Never give her a sup card unless you lose your mind. I will give more shopping allowances when travelling.

Treat her nice but be firm on the ground rules. They can bring you lots of fun. But don't get too emotionally involved, else you will be strung along like an idiot. If you are getting too emotionally involved, I would suggest to break off. I did it to one of the SB. Similarly if she is emotionally in love with you - break-off as well - unless you want to make her your GF.

Remember, she is an SB - probably for a finite period of time. While together be happy. When time is up, move on and still can be friends.

So simple yet so well said! *clap*clap*

[terminator33]

Bump the thread.

[guess67]

Originally Posted by terminator33

Bump the thread.

祝你元宵节快乐!

*bumpz the thread*

[Johnbass]

Power sia...
Lai friend friend leh...
I here so long still cannot find Farks...
Only found WTFs...

Originally Posted by terminator33

3. On others recommendation. Make friends with other potential SD and share information. I got one SB - I got her number and try my luck.. Take lots of patience and sincerity. A couple of weeks of texting on/off before meeting for meals. After a couple of meals then ...

[terminator33]

Originally Posted by Johnbass

Power sia...
Lai friend friend leh...
I here so long still cannot find Farks...
Only found WTFs...

How come u have 600+ points now.